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A Jewish person is not buried in his or her usual clothing. Similarly, jewelry or other adornments are not worn. Bereavement in Judaism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bereavement_in_Judaism Once the body is purified, it is then dressed in tachrichim, or "shrouds", white garments which are identical for each Jew and which symbolically recall the robes worn by the High Priest. A male is then wrapped, preferably in his own tallit; the tzitzit are cut off to show that the dead person is no longer bound by the mitzvot of the Torah. Shards of pottery, representing the destruction of the Temple, are placed on the eyes and mouth of the deceased. Earth from Israel is scattered throughout the casket, as well as on the eyes and heart of the deceased, representing the Jew's tie to the biblical Land of Israel. The earth is also sprinkled on a man's genitals, invoking his covenant with God through circumcision. Urim Publications: DIGNITY BEYOND DEATH: The Jewish Preparation for Burial
www.urimpublications.com/Merchant2/merchant.mv?Scr... Judaism's preparation for burial — a ritual known as tahara (purification) — demands that respect for the body and the soul extend beyond death. The Chevra Kadisha quietly and privately washes, purifies and dresses the deceased in white linen shrouds tied with knots in the shape of the Hebrew letter shin, the first letter of one of the holy names for God. Chevra Kadisha members also recite lyrical prayers as a way of bearing witness to the last of life's passages. After burial society members have gently lowered the body into its casket, they gather around it and ask the deceased to forgive them for any unintentional lack of respect during the tahara. The casket is closed and remains so until burial. The Chevra Kadisha
As he came, so shall he go," says Ecclesiastes. Just as a newborn child
is immediately washed and enters this world clean and pure, so he who
departs this world must be cleansed and made pure through the religious
ritual called taharah (purification). Most well organized communities offer the services a sacred burial society (Chevra Kaddisha), which will prepare the body for burial. Men prepare men and women prepare women. They wash the body with warm water from head to foot and, although they may turn the body as necessary to clean it entirely, including all orifices, they never place it face down. The body is dressed in white burial shrouds (tachrichim), which are purposely kept simple to avoid distinguishing between rich or poor. Men are buried with their prayer shawls (tallits), which are rendered ineffective by cutting off one of the fringes. If, however, a person suffered an injury and blood soaked into his or her clothing, ritual washing is not completed. "...the blood of a person is considered as holy as his life and deserves proper burial," Greenberg writes. From the moment of death, the body is not left alone until after burial. This practice, called guarding/watching (shemira), is also based on the principle of honoring the dead. A family member, a Chevra Kaddisha member, or someone arranged by the funeral parlor passes the time by reciting psalms (Tehillim) as this person watches over the deceased. The Tahrihim - Tachrichim - Takhrikhim
Jewish tradition recognizes the democracy of death. It therefore demands that all Jews be buried in the same type of garment. Wealthy or poor, all are equal before G-d, and that which determines their reward is not what they wear, but what they are. Nineteen hundred years ago, Rabbi Gamaliel instituted this practice so that the poor would not be shamed and the wealthy would not vie with each other in displaying the costliness of the burial clothes. The
traditional clothing for burying the dead are tahrihim, simple
white shrouds. Their use dates back to Rabbi Simeon ben Gamliel II,
who, in the second century CE, asked to be buried in inexpensive linen
garments. According to the Talmud, Rabban Gamliel observed that the
custom of dressing the deceased in expensive clothing put such a terrible
burden on the relatives of the deceased, that they would "abandon the
body and run."[1] Shrouds
are white and entirely hand-stitched. They are made without buttons,
zippers, or fasteners. Tahrihim come in muslin or linen, fabrics
that recall the garments of the ancient Hebrew priesthood. There is
little difference in appearance or cost between them; the funeral home
may or may not offer a choice. Tahrihim come packaged in sets
for men and women. Regardless of gender, they include shirt, pants,
a head covering, and a belt. Men may also be wrapped in a kittel,
a simple, white ceremonial jacket that some Jews wear on Yom Kippur,
at the Passover seder, and under the wedding canopy. In addition to tahrihim, some Jews are wrapped in the prayer shawl (tallit) in which they prayed. Every tallit is tied with four sets of knotted fringes (tzizit), which symbolize the commandment (mitzvot) incumbent upon Jews. Before the tallit is placed on a body for burial, however, one of the sets of fringes is cut to demonstrate that the person is no longer bound by the religious obligations of the living. When only men wore tallitot, only men were buried in them; today, any woman who wore a prayer shawl during her lifetime — an increasingly common custom — is accorded the same treatment in many communities. Tahrihim swaddle the entire body, including the face, so that the deceased is both clothed and protected against the gaze of other people. If shrouds are used, the body is placed in the coffin, which is then closed. In Israel, it is customary to bury the deceased (except soldiers) without a coffin. Religion & Ethics NewsWeekly . BELIEF & PRACTICE . Jewish Burial Practices . February 6, 2004 | PBS
www.pbs.org/wnet/religionandethics/week723/belief....
We sprinkle earth from Israel at the bottom of the casket before we place the body in there, and after the deceased is completely shrouded, we place it on the eyes and on the heart, and that is our connection with our homeland. Blood, Gender and Power in Christianity and Judaism
www2.kenyon.edu/depts/Religion/Projects/Reln91/Gen... A further examination of Jewish burial traditions also reveals that many of the traditional gender distinctions and hierarchies of Judaism may be negated after death. Both men and women are buried in tachrichim, simple, white linen garments, which include a head covering, pants, shirt, belt and sheet. According to the Talmud, Rabban Gamliel established these simple burial garments in order to emphasize that after death there is no longer a distinction between the rich and the poor. Anita Diamant explains further,
The universal use of shrouds protected the poor from embarrassment at not being able to afford lavish burial clothes. Since shrouds have no pockets, wealth or status cannot be expressed or acknowledged in death. In every generation, these garments reaffirmed a fundamental belief in human equality. (Diamant) Women too are buried in these tachrichim, which symbolically remove all the hierarchies of human society. The white shroud is also a symbol of purity (although, paradoxically, the corpse was considered so impure in ancient times that it was not to be touched by the high priests except in select circumstances). The shroud is also alluded to during Yom Kippur when Jews traditionally wear white clothing as they attempt to emulate the purity of the angels. Question 11.6.5: Death and Burial: What are Jewish funeral customs?
www.faqs.org/faqs/judaism/FAQ/05-Worship/section-6... * The body is clothed in a white linen shroud and not street clothes. Shrouds are sewn without knots, and are a multiple piece garment. In earlier times, the sisterhoods or women's auxiliaries used to make shrouds for their community; this practice may still occur in traditional communities. Today, virtually all (Jewish) mortuaries carry shrouds, the prices vary. This is done because of a rabbinic decree of around 1800 years ago. People were spending more than they could afford on funeral expenses because no one wanted to show the deceased, typically a parent, less honor than others showed their loved ones. So, Rabban Gamliel, the "prince" of the Jewish community of the time (and therefore his estate would be quite wealthy), demanded that he be buried in simple white linen, and that this become the custom for everyone. He patterned this clothing after that worn by the High Priest in the Temple on Yom Kippur. If G-d asks the High Priest to enter the Holy of Holies and confront the Divine Presence in simple white linen garments, it seems fitting to do the same when preparing someone to meet their Maker. To this very day, we bury people in a hat, shirt (kittel), pants, belt -- all of plain white linen, if a man, his tallis, and simplified (and ritualized) shoes. No pockets, since you can't take it with you. And the belt isn't knotted, for Kabbalistic reasons.
There is no place in this article to explain each minute custom and its origin and significance. However, as an example, let me cite two main themes: The first is that Judaism is predicated on the belief in an afterlife where men and women will receive their ultimate eternal reward after appearing before G-d for their final judgment, in essence their final Yom Kippur. Is it not then fascinating to know that the traditional burial shroud is designed to be exactly like the clothing worn by the High Priest for his Yom Kippur service, before G-d, in the Bais Hamikdosh, our holy Temple? Doesn't it make sense to carefully wash and clean, and yes, ritually purify, all Jews before their final Yom Kippur, when they are soon to appear before the heavenly court? Yom Kippur High Priest Clothing
The Temple Institute: The Priestly Garments: The Three Categories of Priestly Garments
www.templeinstitute.org/beged/priestly_garments-4.... The White Garments With regard to the High Priest's service on the Day of Atonement the Bible states: "He shall put on the holy linen tunic, and he shall have the linen pants upon his flesh, and he shall be girded with a linen belt, and with the linen turban he shall be attired." (Lev. 16:4). The four garments worn by the High Priest on the Day of Atonement are the tunic, pants, the turban and the belt. These garments are made from white flax; hence their designation "the white garments." They must be woven, as mentioned above, and each thread used must be six-ply - woven from six individual strands of fabric. The High Priest had two tunics which he wore on the Day of Atonement. One-he wore in the morning, and the other at the evening. After the conclusion of the Day of Atonement,
he will never again wear the white garments in which he officiated on
this day. They are hidden in the place where he removes them, as the
verse indicates "And Aaron shall come into the Tent of Meeting, and
he shall take off the linen garments, which he put on when he went into
the holy place, and he shall leave them there." (ibid. v. 23) The Temple Institute: Yom Kippur in the Holy Temple: The Yom Kippur Service
www.templeinstitute.org/yom_kippur/bullock.htm Only thusly shall Aaron enter into the holy place: with a young bullock for a sin offering, and a ram for a burnt offering. He shall put on the sanctified white linen tunic, and have linen pants on his flesh. He shall gird himself with a linen sash, and bind his head with a linen turban. These are sacred vestments; before putting them on, he must immerse himself. And he shall take from the congregation of the children of Israel two goats for a sin offering, and one ram for a burnt offering. And Aaron shall offer the bullock of the sin offering which is for himself, and he shall make atonement for himself and for his family... " (Leviticus 16)
The word TKRYK
The Burial Garments
Funeral Customs: Chapter III: Preparation For Burial, Coffins, ''Grave-Goods,'' Suttee
www.sacred-texts.com/etc/fcod/fcod06.htm The following is a description of a curious ancient Jewish dress for a corpse in the seventeenth century: A special pair of drawers was made by women who did this work as a charity. After this had been put on the body a skirt was added, a frill of fine linen, a taled or cloak, square in form with ribbons suspended, and on the head a white cap. White Shroud Sets include: shirt (Hemmed), pants (Gatkets), overgarment (Kittel), belt (Gartel), blanket (Laloch), bag of earth (Erd Vekel) and hat (Hittel). Women's sets also include a face cover (Ponim Dekel). Rona described a practice that seemed to be particular to their community. “We seem to be one of the few communities that do this. We take very fine netting and cover the face, tuck it in under the bonnet and the collar of the shirt. It softens the face. The top jacket has a collar that is ruffled – it looks very feminine with the face veil. The netting is wrapped softly around the face.” None of the other participants described having such a custom. Some women’s groups have unwittingly mistaken the head covering for an apron. Certainly the custom in our Hevra Kadisha has been to use this covering to tie around the kittel to symbolize an apron. This custom has continued for years, even over the protestations from some women that they certainly did not want to be buried wearing an apron. When I discussed this matter with Rabbi Zohn, he laughed heartily and said that the apron/face covering discussion had been going on for some time. There may also be an apron in the set of takhrikhim, but the primary purpose of the squared fabric with ties is a face covering. [2] The variety of customs regarding types of face coverings should not preclude an understanding of the relative consistency of their function. Just as we are not to close the eyes of a dying person even a moment before death, so too are we to respect the dignity of the soul of that same person, a soul reflected in their face. We are also enjoined to only stand at the sides of the body while conducting the washing and dressing. It is understood that God is present at their head and so we as their agents of transition stand at their side. has been to use this covering to tie around the
The Dressing Ritual
Portions of Leviticus 16:4, which describes how Aaron is to be clothed as the High Priest, are recited after the meit/ah is dressed in each of the corresponding garments. It is our minhag (custom) to proceed according to the order of the verse, placing the head covering last. However, care should be taken to keep the face covered while the body is dressed in the rest of the takhrikhim.
The k’tonet (collarless tunic) is most easily put on as follows: Lay the garment face down on the body, with the head opening toward the feet of the meit/ah. One team member on either side inserts a hand into the end of the sleeve, reaches around and down through the bottom of the garment, and draws the hand of the meit/ah into the sleeve. The sleeves are drawn up until the armhole meets the armpit of the meit/ah. A third team member gathers up the garment near the head, the meit/ah is lifted at the upper body and the k’tonet is pulled over the head and smoothed down over the body, crossing the legs to turn the body as necessary. The ties at the neck are wound four times while reciting Aleph, Bet, Gimmel, Dalet, and tied into two loop bows. Recite: [You] shall wear a holy linen tunic.... The mikhnasayim (pants) are pulled over the feet of the meit/ah, and the k’tonet is tucked neatly into the mikhnasayim and smoothed down inside. Gather the pants at the waist and close the ties with four counted windings and two loop bows, as above. Tie each of the ankle bands the same way. Recite: ...and breeches of linen shall be upon [your] flesh.... The kittel (robe with collar) from the takhrikhim set is put on in the same manner as the k’tonet. Care should be taken when putting on the kittel that the sleeves of the k’tonet are grasped so that they will reach to the wrists. If the meit/ah is to be buried in her/his own kittel, there are a few possible ways to put on this (open) kittel (over the previous one, if possible) after its buttons or snaps have been removed. Follow the instructions of the rosh. The avnet / gartel is passed under the body as a belt, taking care that it remains flat and not twisted underneath. It is wound around 13 times by two team members counting Aleph, Bet, Gimmel, Dalet, Heh, Vov, Zayin, Het, Tet, Yud, YudAlef, YudBet, YudGimmel. The avnet is tied in a shin knot, with three loop bows Recite: ...and a linen sash shall [you] tie.... FOR A FEMALE: The veil is placed on the forehead and tied at the back. The mitznefet (bonnet) is placed on the head and drawn down to cover the entire head and neck, with the hair gathered under the cap. Tie the bonnet with a bow, or using the method specified for the k’tonet (as above). FOR A MALE: Fit the mitznefet (hood) over the head, making sure that the face and back of the head are covered. Recite: ...and a linen headdress shall [you] don.... At the conclusion of the dressing, recite the conclusion of Numbers 16:4, as well as the beginning of Genesis 43:14: ...these are garments of holiness, and [you] shall bathe [your] flesh in water and put them on. And may the God of nurturance give you compassion. If the condition of the body is such that the ritual purification and dressing cannot be performed, the meit/ah is placed into the aron (see below) and wrapped in the sovev, and the takhrikhim are placed over the meit/ah in the same order as above, and on the parts of the body they would normally have covered. Follow the directions of the rosh, who may consult with a more experienced rosh or rabbi outside the taharah room if necessary. Follow the link directly below for Tahara Manuals. "Elegant layout; includes diagrams for knot tying; suggested niggunim to accompany each part of the process; de-briefing; end-notes" The first four letters of the Hebrew alphabet are often counted out loud as the ties of the takhrikhim are twisted, then tied into three connected but unknotted bows. Reciting aleph, bet, gimel, dalet members of the Hevra Kadisha invoke God’s gift of letters, and the calling of the world into creation by Word. The ties are twisted into the shape of a shin. Shin is the letter that begins one of the names of God, Shaddai, a name that connotes the power of God. It is also the first letter of the Shema, the Jewish creed of belief in one God. So as the body of the dead is dressed and the shrouds are tied in this holy letter, even the garments become prayer, threads of connection between our hands, the neshama of the dead and God. |